One of the best things about falling in love is thinking about all the best things that could be. How each of you could enrich the lives of each other. The possibilities, the potential. the soaring emotions and how the jigsaw puzzle fits together.
the twin flame journey and particularly the separation phase makes you see the opposite end of the spectrum. How will it be without this person? What if I don't get closure? Why did I endure so much only to have everything turn out in such a spectacularly unforeseen way? How many flavors of pain must I taste? Ah, the journey.
The answer is not that bad. You get to understand you a little better. You carry on, bruised and stinging but still upright. The gratitude thing definitely works. I understand divine timing but come on already. Understanding the journey and how it fits in with falling in love is not for the meek. But day by day and step by step the self love and awareness and connectedness to spirit is the priority that gives you strength. It is a process.